Okay, this is getting a little crazy.  I knew that working in Japan would be quite a bit different from working in Canada, but I never expected it to be quite like this.

I’m relatively new at my place of work.  I’m doing a job that is quite different from what I’m accustomed to doing, and I think the challenge is a great way to break through the thinking habits of database designers and software engineers (both of which require very different thinking approaches).  I currently live an hour away from my work, and commute by train on a daily basis.  All in all, I can live with the hour-long train ride each way so long as the hours are not too early in the day (getting to Nagoya everyday at noon is perfect for me and my wife’s schedule).

That said, it seems that the schedule for three of the last six work days have been quite erratic.  I either start incredibly early, which makes things very hard on my family here, or I start early and work late.  Only thrice have I had a shift where I can go in at noon and prepare some decent work, and work until 9:15.  Tomorrow, though, is another story.

Tomorrow I need to travel to a different school to teach.  Normally this isn’t a problem as there are four schools in Nagoya.  I am based at the main school, but have also been trained and taught at the Sakae office (a 5 minute trip on the subway).  However, tomorrow’s trek will take me all the way to Toyota City … two and a half hours away if I catch all the right trains at the right time.  It’s also city I’ve never been to, with references I’m not even remotely familiar with.  Sure, I have some instructions on how to get there, but I’m a master at getting *very* lost.  To add some insult to injury, I even get my perfect shift … 1:00 pm to 9:10.  This would be great if I were at the main Nagoya school but, if I were to work until 9:10 in Toyota City, I would be forced to spend the night at a hotel.  There is no way I could get back home by train and, even if I could, it would be past midnight before I arrived.

Not cool.

I’m starting to see why so many foreigners tend to end their contracts prematurely.  At first I had thought it was because we Westerners have a very nonchelant way of looking at a work contract, but after talking to several experienced teachers and seeing this little happenstance occur all within my first week of employment … I’m at a loss for words.

I understand that I’m pretty much an immigrant to this nation, which means that I can get tasked with all the stuff that other people don’t want to do.  I also understand that being a new recruit means that I get tasked with all the stuff that other people don’t want to do.  But at what point is it alright to turn around and say "Look, I appreciate the work, and I thank you for the opportunities you offer, but I just can’t do it like this!" ?

If I were single and 10 years younger, then coming home at 1 am only to wake up again five hours later to start the next day wouldn’t bother me too much.  The "newness" of making money would be enough to motivate me just enough to keep my mouth shut and head down.  But when we’re married, schedules like this seriously cut into our family time, and there is no amount of money (no amount that I can earn, that is) that can justify it.

Have you ever had to work in this kind of situation?  How long could you do it before either putting your foot down and saying "Please … no more" or walking away?  I’ll be talking to my managers about this tomorrow, and I really hope that we can arrange something that is acceptable to the school, as well as my family and I.  I’d hate to be forced from my very first job because of something like this :???: